"SEPARATE IS NOT EQUAL": SAME-SEX COUPLES ON PROPOSITION 8 (13 images)
On May 15th 2008 the California Supreme Court declared that gay and lesbians were a minority group and would therefore be entitled to the same legal rights to marriage as heterosexuals. That made California the second US state after Massachusetts to allow and recognize homosexual marriages.
18 000 same-sex couples married between June and November 4th 2008 when Proposition 8, an initiative outlawing gay marriage and supported by, amongst others, the Roman Catholic and Mormon...
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18 000 same-sex couples married between June and November 4th 2008 when Proposition 8, an initiative outlawing gay marriage and supported by, amongst others, the Roman Catholic and Mormon...
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Sharon Papo & Amber Weiss
Sharon, 30, social worker & Youth Centre...
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![Steve, 53, partner in a law firm. Brian, 48, freelance IT project manager. <br />
San Francisco, California.<br />
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SV: When the Supreme Court issued its decision in May 2008, it was just the most amazing thing and we both turned to each other the next day and proposed. It just seemed absolutely the right thing to do. I think both of our parents were a little nervous at first and a little frightened by the idea of our wedding but by the time the date came and they were here, it was a very joyful occasion. I think it was good for them to see how normal it was.<br />
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BB: I think my Dad thought it might be two guys in dresses walking down the aisle. He told me the day before [the ceremony], 'I don't really want you to kiss, OK?' And I told him that wasn't really an option.](http://cdn.c.photoshelter.com/img-get/I0000ZgHfaCziMhc/t/150/I0000ZgHfaCziMhc.jpg)
Steve Vettel & Brian ..elos
Steve, 53, partner in a law firm. Brian, 48,...
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Robin Tyler & Diane Olson
Robin,67, life-long activist and leader in the...
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Jason Scott & Randy Gray
Jason, 29, web-designer. Randy, 31,...
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![Teresa, 38, Acupuncture Therapist. Kirstin, 40, School Principal. Kai; 3 month. <br />
Pescadero, California.<br />
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TA: I think we opted for the marriage when I was carrying [our baby] Kai, it would be better in terms of Kristin having not to adopt him and to be the legal parent without all that extra paperwork. We'd been together so long, we were just as good as married, as far as we could tell! <br />
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KL: People have ideals of what marriage means: it's a man and a woman - that's it. And even though they might know us and know who we are, we're in a different category. We're special. In fact, we're so special that we don't need to be legal! <br />
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TA: I think the media too has played a huge part in misinforming and confusing people. Saying things about Prop 8 that just wasn't true. Having grown up and lived in other parts of the world, I feel like the United States doesn't always do their homework. They just want a quick answer and not be bothered. <br />
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KL: It's about equality. We all deserve the best.](http://cdn.c.photoshelter.com/img-get/I0000YsH3d0wmxxc/t/150/I0000YsH3d0wmxxc.jpg)
Teresa Atanante Kung,..trom
Teresa, 38, Acupuncture Therapist. Kirstin, 40,...
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John, Duncan and Watson
John, 38, administrator of an elementary...
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Sharon Papo & Amber Weiss
Sharon, 30, social worker & Youth Centre...
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Robin Tyler & Diane Olson
Robin,67, life-long activist and leader in the...
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Jason Scott & Randy Gray
Jason, 29, web-designer. Randy, 31,...
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![Teresa, 38, Acupuncture Therapist. Kirstin, 40, School Principal. Kai; 3 month. <br />
Pescadero, California.<br />
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TA: I think we opted for the marriage when I was carrying [our baby] Kai, it would be better in terms of Kristin having not to adopt him and to be the legal parent without all that extra paperwork. We'd been together so long, we were just as good as married, as far as we could tell! <br />
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KL: People have ideals of what marriage means: it's a man and a woman - that's it. And even though they might know us and know who we are, we're in a different category. We're special. In fact, we're so special that we don't need to be legal! <br />
<br />
TA: I think the media too has played a huge part in misinforming and confusing people. Saying things about Prop 8 that just wasn't true. Having grown up and lived in other parts of the world, I feel like the United States doesn't always do their homework. They just want a quick answer and not be bothered. <br />
<br />
KL: It's about equality. We all deserve the best.](http://cdn.c.photoshelter.com/img-get/I0000AHC6FRT8cjU/t/150/I0000AHC6FRT8cjU.jpg)
Teresa Atanante Kung,..trom
Teresa, 38, Acupuncture Therapist. Kirstin, 40,...
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John, Duncan and Watson
John, 38, administrator of an elementary...
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Robin Tyler & Diane Olson
Robin,67, life-long activist and leader in the...
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Amber Weiss & Sharon Papo
Sharon, 30, social worker & Youth Centre...